Change Republic

since 1950 , India has changed , Indians have changed , i think its high time and now our constitution needs a heavy change. In a country where we struggle in getting jobs with so high qualification , so many of our "so called representatives " cant even wright there names. I am proud to be an Indian and I love my country like any other commoner, but what I hate are these corrupt politician who are trying to decide the fate of our country.
To get into a government service one has to go through so many mental and physical test but to run a government ....?????
We talk about killing corruption for "India shinning" i guess the best way to kill corruption is to kill the roots of it and we all know where its root lay.
Every one knows about the divide and rule policy and yet we support "Reservation". This list is very long and i can go on writing about it but to conclude i would just say - "To raise India , Change India"
JAI HIND.

Second Innings

The period of transformation from a boy to a man is the most critical period of ones life. Everything which you thought was cool or trendy seems so wrong and stupid all of a sudden . The guilt of your mistakes as a boy haunt you . No one is perfect, i guess god made us to commit mistakes and learn . I personally think i am far from being the perfect one but i am glad that i have a way to proceed and that's what brings interest in life. A feeling of achieving something which is far beyond your reach.  


The problem is not many people understand this and by the time they realize its to late . Once we make a mistake so easily we figure out that its not a big deal and the one suffering because of me should forgive me , but the vice-versa happens when we are the sufferers. Life doesn't gives a second chance but that doesn't mean that we humans should not give others a second chance. People change all the time, because as humans we keep learning . So how about after reading this you forgive some one who may have done a horrible mistake but has realized it and feels sorry for it. Today i forgive them all and as the name of the article says i am ready for my second innings .

Crossroad

I found myself standing on a crossroad a few months back. On my left I saw a way where there was nothing right, on my right I saw a place where there was nothing left. In front of me I saw the toughest terrain I had ever seen and behind me was a road which would have taken me to a place where there was no right or wrong and nothing could be changed. Walking by myself I heard voices within me but there were so many distractions. Too tired to carry on but there was something which was stopping me from halting. I was wounded but something healed me. I decided to take the way which was in front of me. Soon I realized I wasn’t alone there were so many similar persons trying to cross the terrain and the something which was helping me all this time was seeing me from above.  I walked, I jogged and I sprinted but his eyes were still watching me. I went up and down the mountains, crossed rivers and leaped over others who had fallen but still when I look in front of me there is no finish line. It’s like a race to the horizon, you can see it but can never reach it. Yet I move on because while walking through these valleys I hear echoes of my loved ones calling me. As I move on i may lose my powers physically but with those eyes upon me and with these voices calling me I develop the power of will and hope.

The Ugly Truth

Remember the days of fun, the days of glory when every one had a star within.
A star with guts , a star with fire within him.
Remember when you where young and you shone like a sun
and every thing seemed within reach.
We stayed within a boundary, and far from the reality .

Remember your first crush , your first love, your first heart break.
Your first puff, your first drink with a bunch of kids who didn't had a clue what they where doing.
It all seems so cool at the moment, the feeling of a king.

Who cares about the future, when you have wings.

Then a day comes when you step out in the real world and face the reality.
The first thing you come to know, is that you were not the only star in the sky.
And that's when your school life star dome comes to an end  .
You can not glide on the steal breeze any more as you will fall behind the competition you are in. (steal breeze out here refers to playing guitar. )
Life no longer stays king size and even the biggest of the tyrants turn into hard working labors like i did.

Then the unanswerable question of the universe arise "whats this life for"
You find two ways in front of you -:
1) Become the hero you always wanted to be .
2)  Or what the world wants you to be.

Power of NO

How do you feel about saying “no?” I notice that saying “no” to certain people and in some situations can be challenging for me. Sometimes I find myself saying “yes” when “no” would really be more authentic. More covertly, I also find myself at times giving “half-truths”(which is quite an oxymoron if you think about it) to people when they present me with opportunities, engage with me about connecting, etc. You know what I mean, you run into someone and say, “we should really get together sometime,” but you really have very little interest in or commitment to making that happen. Does this ever happen to you?

The power of no wont only save you from embarrassing situations, but it also solves the big issue of peer pressure. People may take you as a spoil sport, but why should we care about others. We always say “Be yourself” so I guess the best way to judge when to say no, is by being honest with you.
I still regret many such decisions in my life, I wish I would have realized this a bit earlier, but a man learns from his mistakes and I am no exception.
I started using “NO” and I feel the power of it. It has saved me from making so many faulty decisions. So people find your optimal mix between “YES” & “NO” and when you find yours write a blog about it.  ;) 

Addiction

I know addiction is never good for life but i have always found my self addicted to something or the other .
when born was addicted to my mom.
slowly was addicted to my family.
At 5 was addicted to cartoon . came so close in converting my self into one.
At 10 got addicted to cricket used to breathe cricket , eat cricket , sleep cricket .............
At 13 found new addictions that was my first girl friend and cigarette...... first mistake of my life .
At 14 got addicted to music.
At 15 got addicted to My school and Friends.
At 16 got addicted to Tv
At 17 got addicted to internet.
At 18 got addicted to guitar .
At 19 got addicted to a lot of stuff which cant be told .
At 20 got addicted to laziness.
At 21 got addicted to online gaming.
now at 22 i have started to loose some of my addiction's like i quit smoking , i quit laziness but the question still arrives.

"is it worth leaving" ?
Ans : many people different perceptions, you just need to recognize the good addictions and the harmful ones keep the good ones and leave the bad ones and success will run after you.